As I sat there listening to the conversation, my co-workers were trying to get me engaged in the conversation because they are used to me talking and sharing details about my day. What I found that was very interesting was that after a good five minutes of my silence I was slowly excluded from the conversation. The eye contact from the speaker also seemed to decrease and whoever was speaking would look directly at someone else, even when I was giving them all of my attention. I really thought that they would look at me more to see what kind of face expressions I would make since I was not speaking but I was still clearly interested in what they had to say, but they didn't.
If we were two different cultures and they had the ability to use symbolic language, they would most definitely have the advantage when it came to expressing COMPLEX ideas and that is why we as humans have such an advantage over everyone else, because although there are different forms of communication that others species may use, we are the only ones that are able to speak and communicate by using a symbolic language. Unfortunately, not all humans are born with the ability to speak. There are cases in which children are born either with a disability or a deformity which might prevent them from being able to speak such as mutes, non verbal individuals with mental disabilities or with physical disabilities.
The second part of the experiment was actually much easier for me, although it was still frustrating to not be able to use hand movements and body language it was still much easier than not being able to speak at all.
My co-workers did not exclude me this time but they still acted differently they were more obvious and eager to get a reaction out of me. So they would say something and stop and look at me and when I would talk (clearly I didn't talk as much as usual or they would have thought that I had completely lost my mind.) and I would say things like " I see" and " I know where you're coming from" and " that's interesting", phrases that don't require a lot of emotion.
I think that the ability to talk and being able to see and use body language and expressions is very important. Without signs we can't translate emotion and emotion is what makes us human. Individuals that may not have the ability to see such as blind people or even children with autism that have difficulty reading and translating body language have a major disadvantage when it comes to communication.
Last but not least, I'm wondering if this is a trick question because I can not think of environmental setting where it would be an advantage to NOT be able to see body language or expressions might be an advantage. Maybe when conduction and experiment or during a trial other than that I'm not sure.
I find it really interesting how you note that when you didn't speak, you automatically seemed to be marginalized in the conversation--I'm assuming you they didn't know about this "experiment" in advance! I did this one-on-one, and I let my partner know a little bit about what I was doing up front, so I wonder how my experience might have been different if it was allowed to happen "naturally" without them knowing.
ReplyDeleteThat was brave of you to conduct this experiment without first telling your co-workers what was going on. :-)
ReplyDeleteYes people who have autism have great difficulty reading body language in general. It is definitely a disadvantage, but in milder forms, could there be an advantage to not being distracted by body language? I'm not sure there is an answer, but it does make me wonder.
Good post.
I like how you did the experiment with your coworkers and how you realized without talking they would look at you less and less. It makes me wish I would have done the experiment with more than one person or maybe have done it with to people who were unknowing of the experiment. It was a good post and read.
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